How to get back on track and find your inner joy
These last weeks have been challenging for me in my business. After a busy winter, summer gets here and suddenly things quiet down.
If you are a highly sensitive entrepreneur like me, you know that we can sense and interpret this kind of situation in two different ways. One makes us feel positive and think that we can use this time to slow down and relax. The other one awakens the monster or demon within that thinks that things are “too” quiet, that something is “wrong”, that we are “not good enough” because there are not many new clients appearing.
That is what gave me food for thought about what exactly brings us, as successful entrepreneurs or leaders, out of balance. What exactly are the causes of unhappiness and unfulfillment?
To me, there are 2 main reasons for that. One is “self-doubt” and the other one is “self-sacrifice”.
“Doubt whom you will, but never yourself.” Christine Bovee
I have been an entrepreneur my whole life and there is one thing many of us have in common when it comes down to being successful and feeling unfulfilled at the same time.
Self-doubt can be a demon or a monster that we need to face daily. It is ingrained by our education and society. There is a real fear of not being good enough that we all encounter.
We doubt our worthiness and our strengths. We are so sensitive to what other people say and think about us that we quickly assume we are not good enough.
If only we can see our inner power and strength and feel worthy of just being our true selves. If only we can start living from the inside outward. Only then can we step into our authenticity and share our unique voice with the world. That is when joy, confidence and freedom creep back into our lives.
“Don’t live your life to please other people.” Oprah Winfrey
For years, I used to think that I needed to save, please and help everybody around me and put others first before my own well-being.
Today, I know that self-sacrifice is not the way to real success. It is the way to burn-out and dis-ease. We can be highly successful as deeply caring leaders and professionals without sacrificing our own well-being in the process.
“Self-care and self-love are not selfish, they are our birth right.”
This quote of mine means that no self-sacrifice is asked from you to be highly successful. It is clear that you need to honour and care for yourself first or there will be nothing left to shine with in this world.
Serving out of self-sacrifice is not an example to give to others and certainly not a way to experience true freedom and personal power.
Deeply caring individuals need to take good care of themselves in order to protect their energy and shine from within.
Isn’t that what gets you back on track and gives you the most joy?
Self-doubt and self-sacrifice are dangerous and self-destructive. I see in my practice daily serious successful entrepreneurs on the outside who are suffering and feel something is missing on the inside. Their success is costing them dearly and it does not have to be that way.
What about you? Is your success costing you?
If you answer yes, then I suggest you go and have a look within and see what the main reason is. Is it self-doubt or is it self-sacrifice? Or is it both?
You can let me know the answer, I do care.
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